There’s a moment, just after the funeral ends, when the world quiets down—but for families, everything still feels loud and heavy. That’s often where the committal service comes in. It may be brief, but it carries meaning—sometimes more than we expect.
At St. John’s Dixie, we understand that private committals aren’t just formalities. They’re intimate pauses. A final step in saying goodbye, handled with care.
What Is a Committal Service?
A committal service is the moment a loved one is laid to rest—physically, gently, and with respect. It happens after the main funeral or memorial service, though for many families, it becomes the primary gathering, especially when a quiet, private setting feels more appropriate.
Whether it’s a small group at the graveside or a few close relatives gathered by a niche wall, it’s a space for closure. Not finality—but closure. A place to stand together, speak gently, and leave tokens of love behind.
Types of Committal Options Available
At St. John’s Dixie, our cemetery services offer a range of committal options to suit different wishes and cultural practices:
- Graveside burial: This is the most familiar form, where the casket is lowered into the earth while close friends and family gather.
- Urn placement in a niche: For those choosing cremation, our columbarium offers private or companion niches—quiet, respectful, and above ground.
- Scattering garden: A tranquil outdoor space for families who prefer a natural return to the earth, with the option to add a commemorative plaque nearby.
Each setting provides its own kind of stillness. Its own way of marking presence.
Who Attends—and How Long It Lasts
Most committals are intimate. A handful of close family members. Sometimes just one or two. Sometimes a wider circle of friends joins in. There’s no wrong way.
They tend to last 15 to 30 minutes, though some linger. A few words are spoken. A prayer, perhaps. Some stand in silence. Others share a memory.
It’s not the length of time that matters—it’s the space that’s made for emotion to be felt.
What You Might Include
We’ve seen many kinds of services over the years, and while no two are alike, there are a few elements families often include:
- Readings – from scripture, poetry, or something handwritten.
- Music – a favorite song played softly, or even sung live.
- Flowers – single stems laid gently, or full arrangements.
- Quiet reflection – space to breathe, to cry, to be.
Some families release balloons or doves. Others stand hand-in-hand and say nothing at all. The most important part is that it feels honest.
Understanding Cemetery Guidelines
Every cemetery has guidelines, and at St. John’s Dixie, we aim to make ours as clear and accommodating as possible.
Our burial services follow respectful and practical procedures. We coordinate timing carefully, offer seating and shelter when needed, and ensure every site—whether a grave or a niche—is fully prepared.
We also help families understand rules around items placed at the site, like personal keepsakes, seasonal decorations, and long-term memorials. We know those small touches matter, and we work to support them where possible.
If you have questions about specific logistics—parking, accessibility, timing—we’re here to walk you through it all.
How Our Team Supports You
Funeral planning can feel overwhelming, especially when it involves multiple pieces—service venues, burial sites, reception spaces. Our team at St. John’s Dixie works closely with families and funeral homes to coordinate every detail related to the cemetery.
We help plan the schedule, set up the committal space, and make sure everything flows smoothly. You don’t need to manage logistics in a moment of grief. That’s what we’re here for.
We’re also available for advance funeral arrangements—so families can make decisions with clarity and time, rather than under pressure. Planning ahead often brings comfort, knowing that choices reflect true wishes.
Transparency in Costs and BAO Rights
As a licensed cemetery operator in Ontario, we follow the regulations set by the Bereavement Authority of Ontario (BAO). That means we uphold transparency, fairness, and your legal rights as a consumer.
Before you commit to any funeral resources or burial services, we provide a clear breakdown of costs—no hidden fees, no vague estimates. If you’re unsure about something, we’ll explain it simply and respectfully.
We encourage families to ask questions. Your peace of mind matters.
You’re Not Alone in This
It’s easy to feel like you have to hold everything together during funeral planning. But the truth is, you don’t have to do it alone.
We’ve helped hundreds of families through this process—not just as cemetery staff, but as people who understand what it means to say goodbye.
Our grounds are quiet and beautifully kept. Our team is compassionate. And our goal is always to support you with care, whether you need help planning now or are just exploring your options.
Talk to Us About Committals and Cemetery Services
If you’re considering a committal or looking for private cemetery services, we’d be honoured to assist. Whether you’re making funeral arrangements in advance or navigating things in the moment, we’ll meet you where you are.
Reach out to St. John’s Dixie to schedule a committal, explore your options, or simply ask a few questions. You’ll be met with empathy, professionalism, and a deep respect for the journey you’re on.
Because when it comes to saying goodbye, every detail deserves care.