For many families, scattering a loved one’s ashes isn’t just a choice—it’s a way to set them free. To return them to nature. To release the weight of goodbye in a moment that feels personal and sacred.
At St. John’s Dixie, we often hear from families who chose cremation not for simplicity, but for the opportunity to make a farewell as unique as the life it honors. Scattering ashes can be part of that process, when done with care, intention, and an understanding of what’s allowed.
Why More Families Are Choosing to Scatter Ashes
Cremation has become a widely accepted option in Ontario, and with it, more people are exploring what comes next. For some, keeping ashes in a traditional urn feels right. For others, it’s about finding a place—a landscape, a memory, a feeling—that lets them let go gently.
Scattering grounds offer that kind of release. They’re flexible, personal, and often less formal than traditional burial. But the lack of formality doesn’t mean the moment isn’t deeply moving.
What the Law Says in Ontario
Scattering is legal in Ontario, but it’s not without boundaries. The Bereavement Authority of Ontario (BAO) outlines clear guidelines that families should be aware of before choosing a location.
Here’s what you need to know:
- Private property: You need the owner’s permission to scatter ashes on private land—even if it belongs to a friend or family member.
- Crown land or waterways: Scattering is permitted in many public areas such as lakes, rivers, and provincial parks, provided it’s done respectfully and doesn’t interfere with public use.
- Cemetery grounds: Designated scattering grounds, like those at St. John’s Dixie Cemetery, are specifically created for this purpose. They offer a quiet, landscaped setting where families can return anytime.
Using a registered cemetery ensures the moment is both meaningful and legally protected.
Where Families Choose to Scatter
Some families know exactly where they want to scatter. Others need a little inspiration. Over the years, we’ve seen many beautiful choices:
- A favorite hiking trail or forest clearing
- A lakeshore that held childhood summers
- The family cottage dock
- A quiet garden with a memorial plaque
At St. John’s Dixie, we offer a dedicated scattering ground—a peaceful, curated area on our cemetery property where ashes can be released and names can be remembered.
For those who want a combination of scattering and remembrance, this offers the best of both worlds: freedom and permanence.
Biodegradable Cremation Urns and Ceremony Ideas
If you’re planning a scattering, the container matters. Many families opt for biodegradable cremation urns made of paper, sand, or salt—materials that gently return to the earth or water with no waste left behind.
Ceremonies can be as detailed or simple as you need them to be. We’ve seen families:
- Read letters or poems aloud before scattering
- Play soft music that meant something
- Light candles or bring symbolic flowers
- Pause in silence before releasing the ashes
Sometimes just being present is enough. You don’t need a script—just sincerity.
What to Include in a Scattering Ceremony
There are no rules here, but there are things that help. Many families include:
- A few chosen words: Whether spiritual or personal.
- Tokens or mementos: Photos, small natural objects, or written notes.
- A moment of silence: Often the most powerful part.
- Companionship: Invite those who knew them best.
If you scatter in a public place, consider the environment. Avoid materials that won’t decompose and be mindful of others around you. This is a private moment—even if shared in public.
Support with Scattering Logistics and Rights
Scattering might sound simple, but it comes with details—timing, location, permissions, transportation of remains, and even emotional readiness. We’re here to help with all of that.
Our team at St. John’s Dixie has assisted many families through the cremation services process, and scattering is often a final step in that journey. We guide you through legal considerations, help you plan a ceremony if needed, and offer peaceful, protected space if you choose to scatter on our grounds.
We also make sure families understand their rights under Ontario law—including what you’re entitled to as part of any funeral or cremation arrangement. Transparency matters.
Let’s Talk About Scattering Options
If you’ve already chosen cremation and are now thinking about scattering ashes, take your time. There’s no rush. Sometimes the right location or moment doesn’t come right away—and that’s okay.
Whether you want to learn more about our scattering grounds, get help planning a small ceremony, or explore different types of cremation urns, we’re here to walk beside you.
Speak with a Cremation Specialist
Every life deserves a meaningful farewell—even if it’s quiet, even if it’s simple. If you’re considering scattering ashes in Ontario, or want to understand your options better, reach out to St. John’s Dixie Cemetery.
Our compassionate staff can guide you through cremation services, ceremony ideas, and the legal landscape. Whether you need a peaceful scattering ground or just someone who understands the process, we’re here.
Because the way we say goodbye matters.
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